I’m really awful about buying gifts for people for holidays. It seems so superficial, doesn’t it? You know, just buying some random gift to satisfy your holiday quota?
That’s just not me.
So when my mom texted me last week and asked me to skip work on a Thursday (while my young boys are in school and daycare), and drive to my hometown to spend a Mother-Daughter day painting this desk with her, as her Mother’s Day gift, I knew it was the perfect heart-felt gift that I could give her!
I had picked up this desk last year at the thrift store for a mere $28! I had offered to give it to my mom, and of course, she wanted it (because it’s such good quality). I had offered to paint it for her a while ago, but she thought she liked it “as is.” (And let me tell you, this baby is HEAVY! They just don’t make affordable furniture like this anymore. Thank GOD for thrift stores, right??)
But she had a change of heart recently and wanted to paint it white. So off I went, for a Mother’s Day “girls day”!
After a day of chatting…..eating pizza……and enjoying a quiet day without kids, this is what we pulled off:
AND MY MOM LOVES IT!!
We painted it in Annie Sloan Chalk Paint “Old White”, with a light distressing around the edges, and two coats of Annie Sloan clear wax.
It was such a dramatic makeover that my mom kept “Ooohing” and “Ahhing” over the desk. And rightly so. It looks so rich and beautiful now! And what she most wanted was for her “office area” of her living room to be brightened up a bit. Now that the desk is white, it’s definitely a happier corner!
It’s funny how you never know how DRAB something was until you paint it! It’s such a huge difference for her corner!
You may be wondering about the top of this desk. It’s the existing leather panels that came on the desk! I also thought they would look better painted, but once I saw the “AFTER” of this desk when we were done, I really appreciated the worn, dirty leather on top. It gave the piece some genuine aged character. We decided to keep them instead of painting them.
Teaching Mom to Paint a Distressed Desk!
My mom and I don’t get a lot of quality time together. I’ve got 3 rowdy boys (ages 6, 3, and 1.5 years) and when we go to visit her about once per month on a Saturday, her house becomes a zoo, with my sons acting like a munch of wild monkeys. Hubby works weekends, so it’s usually me trying to
herd cats care for the kids by myself.
And I only get to see my mom about once every 3 weeks or so.
So to get this chance to share with her my love of painting furniture, and show her how I make things pretty again, was a great day! In fact, I hope we can do it once every month or two!
The “Slacker” Way to Paint Drawers
While we were painting, I looked over and gasped when I saw my mom doing THIS:
PAINTING the drawers WITHOUT removing the contents! HAHAHAHA
I think this picture should be captioned: “The Lazy, Novice Way to Paint Drawers.”
Ain’t nobody got TIME to be removin’ stuff, now!
Repairing Broken Parts
Okay, so there were some issues with this desk, but we worked around it:
1. It’s missing one of the handles.
We only have 8 of the 9 handles. Did you already notice? When I look at my original photo of this desk, when I first brought it home from the thrift store, I had it. But now…?? Who in the world knows! Somethow, I think I lost it in the transport to Mom’s house.
But….um, who cares? We’ll just put that drawer to the far right of the desk and hope that no one will notice No one really comes to visit, anyhow. It’s not even that noticeable. And I surely don’t strive for perfection!
2. The front edge was badly chipped.
I used a bit of Gorilla Glue (best stuff EVER) to glue down the piece of wood that was coming up.
Then I used Elmer’s Carpenter’s Wood Filler and tried to even out the unevenness (sorry I didn’t get more details pics of filling these problem areas!)
After a bit of filling in the chipped area and sanding to even it out, I painted that area, lightly distressed the edges, and applied 2 coats of clear wax. Hardly noticeable now!
3. The furniture hardware needed some Rub ‘n Buff.
Definitely not a problem. If you haven’t tried Rub ‘n Buff, get your hands on this stuff immediately! (Click here to buy Rub ‘n Buff from Amazon). Although the hardware was beautifully shaped, they were tarnished. Rub ‘n Buff totally covers nasty old tarnished handles that have great shapes and designs but just needs an updated finish. I find it easier to use (and less mess!) than spray paint. Just rub it on, buff it out for shine, and you’re done! It comes in an array of colors, and I’m thinking about getting the whole set of Rub ‘n Buff, which is only abuot $30. Pretty affordable!
Rub ‘n Buff is one of my top 15 DIY “must have” tools and supplies!
Mom had never even heard of Rub ‘n Buff before, so I put her to work trying it out. She couldn’t believe how it totally changed the hardware!
A dramatic “before” and “after” when you see them side by side, huh?!
Considering that I had all the materials I used already, and that I didn’t have to buy anything separate, this desk project cost me nothing, really! So, for $28 (the cost of the desk initially), my mom’s got a fabulous, beautiful, sturdy desk for her office corner, and she and I had a chance to bond! SCORE!
More Gifts to Consider This Mother’s Day
So, this Mother’s Day, why don’t you consider doing something awesome for your mom? It doesn’t have to cost money. Just spending an afternoon with her, doing something that she will appreciate, and being able to chat and bond, is more valuable than anything you can pick up from Target Just sayin’……
Here’s a couple other ideas of things that I think Mom’s would really love:
1. Knit her something.
2. Give her DIY coupons for things she can redeem any time (e.g. a “mother/daughter day,” making her dinner, teaching her a new skill, etc.)
3. Frame a pic of you and her together. (Get the frame from the thrift store, of course….)
4. Write a letter of thanks and appreciation. Use pretty paper!
5. Write a poem. Here’s the poem I wrote my mom one Mother’s Day, called “Thank You.”
6. Record a video telling her how much she means to you. Put it on a CD she can keep forever.
7. DIY craft pack with some of her favorite things (okay, so many you’ll have to go to Target, after all. LOL)
What are YOU guys planning to do for Mother’s Day? Are you making or buying your gifts?